You're not the only one who engages themselves in a self-struggle for being introvert. Stop blaming yourself and learn the art to embrace this trait of yours. Everyone is not born to become a social butterfly. Accept yourself the way you are. Celebrate life every day with some useful tips to be happy.
Stop Overthinking
Come out of the habit of overthinking which makes life complicated. Stop thinking that why other people (Extroverts) mingle with masses so easily and you find it difficult. Never allow negative people to be around you who constantly infuse negativity in your mind for being introvert. This will make you think more and obviously, it’s not positive.
Declutter your life
Along with decluttering your house and cupboards, it is equally important to declutter your life as well. Remember that you need to let go of people, situation, possession which threatens your mental peace and bring down your confidence and self-esteem. Revamp your wardrobe, give your home a makeover by discarding items that serve no purpose. Same with people who add no value to your quality of life or put your morale down do not deserve to be in your life.
Be the Boss
Take charge of your happiness, search it within yourself. You know most of the introverts are genius and you need to identify and bring the best thing hidden within yourself. Once you succeed in that you win half of the game. This will bring immense joy to you. You just need to believe that you have a lot more to contribute to society and gain happiness without participating in the rat race.
Open up
No, open up does not always mean signing up in dating sites, and getting engaged in meaningless chatting with random people, unwillingly attending parties and gatherings, No. Open up to yourself. This is an Art of Living. You need to sit and figure out what ideas you have to beautify your life with the available resources and skillset? Start giving shape to your ideas in the form of paintings/drawings/sketches/cartoons/writing articles or blogs whatever suits you. If you want to make videos to showcase any of your talents, start doing it today. Let people get connected to you when they engage themselves with your creation. Now see the magic, you not a lover anymore for being introvert.
Emphasize on Self-Love and care
Show love for yourself which you often forget while you feel guilty for being introvert. Start from body care. Get regular health check-ups done, keep yourself fresh, fit, and beautiful that you fall for yourself all over again. Personalities who look happy with themselves attract man followers. Being liked by people is an amazing feeling and key to happiness. Treat yourself with your favourite food, gift yourself a new dress, or a book by your favourite author. Plan a Holiday for yourself. Nothing rejuvenates a soul when it gets exposed to nature.
These simple and easy ideas can show introverts the key to happiness.
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